Love After Likes: Online Dating Tips for Grown-Ups Who Still Got It

Hey fabulous singles! Let's talk about online dating in the glorious age of, well, us! Dating at any age can be a rollercoaster, but honey, it can also be a whole lot of fun – especially if you approach it with the right attitude. So, ditch the cynicism and dust off your dancing shoes, because we're about to find your happily ever after (or at least a killer first date!).

You’re older, wiser and yes, more set in our ways.  But you also have more time to enjoy yourself and embrace the process, especially if you’re an empty nester. And sex at this age can be FABULOUS!!  Plus, you don’t have to take man’s B.S.  That’s not to say you should approach each new adventure as One and Done, although I have friends who swear by this mantra.  But after all, how will you ever build a connection with someone if you don’t even give them the time of day? So, here’s my tips on the whole online dating thing.

Now, before you dive headfirst into the dating pool, remember this: you are a queen (or a king, however you roll!). Know your worth, know what you bring to the table, and don't settle for anything less than amazing. Treat past relationships as stepping stones, lessons learned, and experiences that make you the incredible catch you are.

Feeling a little nervous about putting yourself back out there? That's totally normal! But here's a little morsel: embrace the excitement! Get out there with an open mind, a positive attitude, and who knows, you might just meet someone who makes your heart do a little salsa dance (or whatever makes your soul happy).

One word of caution, my lovelies: comparisons are the thief of joy. Don't spend your dates reminiscing about your ex or trying to make them jealous. This date is about you and the person in front of you, not ghosts from the past.

Speaking of the person in front of you, communication is key! Be upfront about what you're looking for, whether it's a casual fling or a lifelong partner. And if you have kids (because let's face it, many of us do at this stage in the game), have an honest conversation about where you both stand on expanding the family. The "Define the Relationship" talk (DTR for short) might not be the most glamorous, but it can save a whole lot of heartache and miscommunication down the road.  Besides, there’s no sense in wasting time at this age.

Science says laughter is the best medicine for relationships. Who knew a good belly laugh could strengthen your connection with someone? So, lighten up, find someone who shares your sense of humor, and maybe even create some epic inside jokes along the way. Because let's be honest, isn't that what love is all about – finding someone who gets you, laugh-out-loud funny moments and all?

Online dating in our age group can be an amazing adventure. So, put on your best outfit (confidence is the ultimate accessory!), embrace the journey, and remember – laughter, self-worth, and open communication are the recipes for online dating success.

Now go forth, find your perfect match, and show the world that grown-up love can be just as exciting (and maybe even more fulfilling) than the first time around. We're cheering you on every step of the way!  Cheers!!